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There is sex and then there is transcendental ecstasy –here’s a way to consistently experience the latter…

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When we hear people excitedly exclaim about an amazing experience they will often use the expression: “It’s better than sex!” –which is really just another way of saying *nothing* is better than sex. However, there is “sex” and then there is transcendental ecstasy […]

The last thing you want to do when your relationship is going smoothly is put it on “autopilot”…

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Anyone who commutes to work has had the experience of arriving at the office and not even remembering the process of getting there. The first time you become aware of it having happened, it is frankly a bit scary. However, our brains […]

Nearly everyone is stressed for time and here’s how to avoid having your relationship fall apart because of it.

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Recently I was interviewed on camera by a highly regarded relationship coach where we discussed many issues surrounding sex and intimacy. The part where things became, well… “interesting” was when I talked about how critical it was for couples to set […]

Here’s how you can turn approach anxiety into reach out success minus the cold sweats and furtive glances…

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How many times have you been to a bar with a very danceable live band playing only to find the ones dancing are the women? My partner and I love to go out dancing most weekends and we typically find that we […]

Here’s how to avoid your bundles of joy from absolutely shredding your relationship…

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I remember so clearly how wonderful things were with my wife and I for the first three years of our marriage. Though we were working ungodly hours every day building a successful business together, we loved every minute of it. And, we NEVER fought. I also remember […]

Here’s how you can live on the “edge of your fear” and have a life others are afraid to even dream about…

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I’ve been an observer of human nature my whole life. And one thing that has always amazed me is how the […]

Here’s a way to make love that can take you and your partner to levels you’ve never dreamed possible…

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As mentioned in previous articles, every adult has a Sexual Operating System (S.O.S.) that has an enormous impact on the quality and longevity of their intimate relationships. For most people this is a largely unconscious influence that, if left unchecked, […]

When your partner uses menopause as the reason for diminished desire consider it your wake up call to something more serious…

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I recently visited a dear friend of mine in the mid-West. On all outward appearances he is happily married with two incredible teenage children and an attractive wife in her early 40’s. For fun I gave him some of […]

Most people settle when choosing a mate and end up living to regret it –fortunately this is completely avoidable…

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In terms of finding your “perfect” mate, let me break the news to you, there is no such thing. At least not on this planet. No one is perfect, everyone has flaws. With that said however, it IS very possible to […]

The ego is always working to “protect” our heart and ends up cutting us off from what we want most –here’s how you can prevent that from happening…

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When it comes to romantic relationships, the ego is like the moon: romantic, literally necessary for our survival and has the ability to drive us temporarily crazy on a periodic basis. When […]

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